This is actually a true life story shared by a facebook user
THIS ONE WEAK ME O??
I got this from a group I belong to on Whatsapp what is your take on this ?
THIS is for real , pls read.....its for the digestion of our beautiful sisters who always insist we desist from checking our husband's phone as it may lead to heartbreak.
Talking about don't ever check your man's fone if you don't want to see something that would break you! I say No! I don't agree.. Marriage shouldn't be that way.. Marriage is supposed to be two people becoming one! No secrets, no false personality, it should be open and absolutely free. Sincerely if you don't have access to your husband or wife's fone then I can categorically tell you that something is not right and of course they are hiding something.
Now let me tell you how checking my Hubby's fone saved my whole life.
My hubby of almost 5 years suddenly started acting strange. He kept late nights, his fone became a part of his body he carried everywhere.. I noticed that he panicked anytime his fone was around me. And to make matters worse, he avoided a certain call when he was at home.. Sometimes he would go out of the house entirely to take calls. My hubby loves his sleep so much but recently he would stay late into midnight texting and smiling on the fone.. Even taking sexy pictures of himself which was strange cos he hates snapping fotos. As the typical woman that iam. Everything drew my attention. I suspected he was cheating but I didn't conclude. I observed him more closely. I monitored his password and was able to access his fone one day. And there it was.. He was cheating on me with this particular lady. I got her number and monitored her also. I didn't call her. When I viewed her on WhatsApp my heart sunk. She was extremely beautiful. With a killer body. I think they just met recently according to my Hubby's behavior. I stopped having sex with him instantly. Infact he stopped coming for sex. Well, obviously! He was getting enough! This man continued to cheat on me irrespective of the good woman that I know iam. Months passed by and he did a good job pretending to me.. Still not making a single attempt to touch me. We had a 3 year old and all I did was focus on her and my job.. I still gathered strength to pray for him sometimes.. It wasn't easy. It was very hard. Knowing your man is having an affair and not doing anything about it. It's really hard. I felt like confronting him so many times.. I felt like calling the other woman sometimes.. I felt like leaving sometimes but I still gathered strength and stayed. Months passed and I suddenly observed his behavior changed again. He stayed indoors more often. Kept to himself.. Missed his meals and all that. Well, we weren't okay so I didn't bother asking.. Few weeks after, I got hold of his fone again and open his chat messenger. My eyes froze. I was beyond shocked. He was venting severely and insulting her. He was even throwing curses at her. I quickly scrolled upwards. Alas! She had infected him with HIV.. He tested positive and he was staging war against her. To my amazement all she replied was "Lol" everything made sense to me now. And the only thing I could alter was thank you Lord for keeping me away from him sexually all these months. I ran to the hospital to have a test on myself and my daughter and we were Negative. On returning home, hubby had tided up everywhere, cooked, and stocked up the house with groceries. Later at night he gave me a gift and attempted to make love to me. I was so furious!!!! I smashed the gift across his face and was hitting him. How wicked??? So he wanted to deliberately infect me too?? I bursted out everything I know to him and he was shocked. And ashamed. We had a terrible fight which made me give him several slaps for the first time ever. I packed my stuff but he was dragging me back, pleading with me to stay. But No! I made up my mind not to surfer the consequence of his selfish acts.
Now all the married people who cheat on their spouse with younger, sweeter girls or guys, note that you are not the only one they are having sex with.. Most of them often have two or more other people they are seeing.. Which puts you at so much risk than you can ever imagine.
Its somebody's story, but what is your conclusion on this.